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Title: my bf punched me on my face...

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i once promised my bf that i will not go to pub or drink beer. on fri, after my buffer dinner birthday celebrations, my frens are discussing on where to go next. i din get myself involved in the discussion as I do not know much places. but i know they are not going for clubbing.

when we reach the place, it was a place with live band and pple sitting ard to enjoy music and drinking. I din think of it as a pub becos i thought pubs are those places with pple dancing, pple standing very very close with one another..... i went in to put my bag and went to the toilet. my bf call me. he ask me where I am and i tell him where I am. he became angry and blame me for breaking my promise by going into pub. i tried to explain but he refused to listen. abt 15 mins later i leave the place and saw him outside. he feels that y i dun leave immediately after the call. i told him that it was proper mannered that i sit a while then go off..in addition, my fren went out to make a call. so i thought should wait till she come back (she will be back in short while) then bid bye to them. i thought this was social etiquette. but he feels that i am treating my frens more impt than him.
he says i cannot go out with tat grp of frens anymore and wan me to choose between frens or him. he also scolded y my guy fren hold my hands when i cross the road. i explain to him that there is a car coming and my guy fren was using his fingers to push my elbow to hurry me, not holding my frens.

in the past, he has also asked the same qns and it was resolved. now he pop the same qns. i am very disappointed and told him lets break. he said he will call his frens to beat my frens up, including the guy fren who hurry me to cross the road. i ignore and continue to walk.

i want to call cab home but he thought i was trying to alert my frens. he want to snatch my hp and i already told him i was just calling the cab. he continue to demand the hp so i told him i will remove the sim card and return the phone (he bought for me as b'day present). he tried snatching a few times and i keep turning my back. finally he turn my body ard and punch me on the area between ear & cheekbone. he wanted to punch the 2nd time but his hand stop at the last min.

till now, he insist that it is my fault instead of misunderstanding as what i claimed. he has apologize to me on the punch but ask me to look at the reason y he punch me. that night he says he punch me becos he wan to wake me up. he feel that i have shown that i do not know how to take care of myself when i entered the place.
he ask for a second chance but i am hesistating.... when i keep saying i need time to think, he went shouting. how come i was in the wrong and he beg me for forgiveness, i still want to think thru when he was very concerned on my safety..
what should i do? i keep thinking of how he punch me, but am i being unfair if i break up just becos of this punch and forget his love and efforts?
sorry for long story

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Read this off a forum. This kind of people exists being a treat to society.